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Jesta Hillmann has returned to the public eye to explain why she and Benoît Assadi decided to end their relationship. The former Koh-Lanta contestant surprised followers in September when she revealed the split after a decade together and more than seven years of marriage. Her latest remarks aim to clear up rumors and shed light on how the couple came to this painful choice.
Jesta’s explanation: no betrayal, no dramatic incident
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Speaking on Instagram, Jesta took care to correct misinformation. She denied any acts of infidelity or violence. Instead, she described a gradual shift in their bond.
- No betrayal, no violence — she insisted the split was not triggered by a single event.
- The couple devoted much of their energy to raising their children.
- Over time, their relationship evolved into a deep friendship and a parental partnership.
- They still love each other, but the romantic spark changed.
Jesta said discussions about separation had been ongoing for months. The final decision was reached during the summer. The announcement came weeks later, leaving fans surprised by the timing.
How she lived the breakup privately and publicly
The influencer explained why she has not shared raw emotional footage. She rarely films herself in distress and prefers to keep certain moments private.
What she revealed about her emotions
- She admitted to crying a lot in recent months.
- Those moments were kept away from her public feed.
- Her polished social posts do not mean the separation was easy.
Despite smiling for the camera, Jesta made it clear the separation represented a loss. She called it an “failure” for the couple, acknowledging the weight of the decision for both of them.
Parenting first: their commitment to their three boys
Both parents have chosen to prioritize their children in the aftermath. Jesta and Benoît remain on amicable terms and focus on co-parenting.
- They share custody and coordinate decisions for the boys.
- Public appearances and statements are managed with discretion.
- Their mutual respect is intended to protect the children’s routine.
Jesta emphasized that their relationship as parents is strong. She framed the split not as a dramatic rupture, but as a redefinition of family life.
Context: from TV contestant to influencer
Jesta first became known through Koh-Lanta. Since then, she has built a public profile as a content creator. Her followers expected transparency, which partly explains the interest in her latest disclosures.
- Her Instagram is the platform where she chose to address the breakup.
- The timing of the announcement drew attention because the couple had appeared united.
- Fans continue to ask questions, prompting Jesta to clarify her position.
